At 26, I went back home, back to having nothing in life. When I left the company I started, I knew I was following a path that felt like my path. Even though I was not sure where it would lead to, I was ready to find out. I was scared of a blank page,…
Category: Family & Relationship
A Millennial’s Truth #5: Instead of love, hold space in a relationship
I swiped someone right on Tinder and went on my first Tinder date. He became my boyfriend later, and he made me believe that, maybe, ‘the one’ exists. Being with him was so easy. The thought of him was like a beam of sunshine that warmed me from within, it made me smile. People called…
Hitting the rock bottom
When I left the company I started end of last year, I knew I was following a path that felt like my path. Even though I was not sure where it would lead, I was ready to find out. I was scared of a blank page, but I knew all that I need to feel…
When breath becomes air – what is a life well lived?
As I got to the end of the book, I started to weep softly. Words conjunct with memories, I had a grand tour of death. I felt like spending the whole book getting to know Paul, only to lose him in the epilogue penned by his wife, about the grand finale of life. Memories zoomed…
How do we touch life?
I wasn’t in a good place last month. I lived in doubts and incongruence. It was a good experiment nevertheless; I learned so much about me and about life when I was managing a café. Even with a wealth of experience setting up new coffee shops, when it came to operation, I was a newbie.…
Meditation found me and changed my life
I was introduced to a friend’s friend on a random night two years ago. They talked about lucid dreaming, meditation and spiritual topics all night. I couldn’t comprehend it, but I listened and stayed with them for the next 3 hours. Maybe I was stressed out at that point of time, maybe I was attracted…
Hey life, let’s play
Like it or not, life is a game. Whoever denies the truth, refuses to play, gets left on the side line. – Phil Knight, Shoe Dog I was mesmerised by how life unfolds itself and presents us with its treasure. I swiped someone right on Tinder early this year. Then he became my boyfriend, and…
Courage
I’ve always thought that coffee is love of my life, until all hell broke loose one day. The moment of truth struck during my first coaching session when I was required to write down the ‘why’ behind my ‘wants’. I wrote: I want to help people to live a happy and fulfilled live in their…
What I learned from losing my best friend
I met up with my ex best friend. It was everything but scary. It felt good, weird, intimate and warm. I’d let fear hold me back for 9 years before reaching out. The lost years ‘Hey,’ I said to her. I didn’t know what else to say. Should I ask ‘how’s life’ or should I…
What I learn about love while watching a Bourne Movie
I was watching Jason Bourne with my boyfriend in the cinema. Head on his chest, our fingers wrapped around each other, I felt deeply connected with him in one moment. My heart was filled with surge of love and gratitude; tears gathered in my eyes and rolled down gently. He wasn’t aware of the wave…
Who is your hero?
We don’t see superman flying around to save life, batman coming out at night to stop crime, or iron man spending money to build extravagant gadgets. Maybe, a real hero starts family and raises kids. He builds home to keep his family safe. He watches everyone from afar every step of the way. He never…
Instead of love, hold space in a relationship
He makes me the happiest person in the world. The thought of him is like a beam of sun shine that warms me from within, it makes me smile. People call it ‘being in love’; science said it is the work of dopamine in our brain. When I came across a beautiful article about holding…